Judge me, but judge us not

Have you ever known someone that you were dead sure that they would become a wonderful person, but as the years go by, and you start to realise they just weren’t turning out to who you thought they could be?

During my not-so-long time on the face of Earth, I have already seen quite a few......

Doesn’t that make you rethink on how you would come to any conclusions on anything?

I am not saying that one should judge a person, that’s just wrong to SAY.....

But really, everyone needs to have an impression on everyone else and in fact almost everyone’s doing it...

He/she doesn’t have to tell us, they would seldom want to, and neither have we the rights to know, but through observations, we need to have a credible and accurate conclusion on them, in order to act and react accordingly...

That is why not all of the people around us, that made contact with us becomes our friends...and not all friends remained as friends.....

That is also why and how we put high hopes in others and lesser hopes in some...

So who are we not to judge? .....We all judge, and the action of telling someone to not judge someone else, is in actual fact, an action of judging......

Since judging is inevitable, let us all please judge with a conscious, fair and unprejudiced mind.....

Things happen, but they don’t just happen without reasons, it could be because he/she had a bad day, yes, he/she may have to learn a better way of handling his/her anger, but you too, maybe the next time you feel like cursing someone for making you pissed off, try placing yourself in his/her shoe......

People handle things differently, especially when it comes to emotions, some would choose to head out and spend, and some would take the gourmet /glutton path, while others might choose violence......

Personally, I would choose to sleep it off, well talking about it with someone else works for me too.....But at the end of the day, when I start to feel better, I would try to think of a reason on why things happened, and not waste time whining about the fact that it did......the more negativity and less understanding you put into certain bad things, you’re just making it happen again, trust me on that...

And this is where benefit of the doubt comes in......’cause we may never get to really find out why someone would do this or that, but c’mon let’s all give them the benefit of doubt shall we?

“I believe in humans, I would rather think and be good and get myself disappointed again and again, time after time...”

That’s just a quote from somewhere, but it works for me, and this following quote works in conjunction of it.....

“A good person falls seven times, a wicked person only once”

Since X’mas is over, and 2009’s coming, I wish all of my friends and family members to have a MUCH MUCH better year in 2009 and for a few, a better Christmas and Silent night, and to some other few, I hope you guys get your future directions right soon....

Yours sincerely,

XzR

awakening the memories...like never before...